Directed Retreats
Directed Retreats at Mercy by the Sea provide an opportunity to withdraw from the busyness of life, and enter more deeply into relationship with God. You'll find opportunities for solitude, silence, and prayer, and a daily meeting with a trained spiritual director. A peaceful atmosphere of silence is maintained for the duration of the retreat.
We hope that you'll consider spending your precious retreat time with us.
How to Register
In order to avoid overloading our registration system, we will once again be progressively opening the 2025 retreats on January 21, 22, 23 and 24. You can find a full List of Retreats/Retreat Directors and Their Opening Dates at the bottom of this web page. Once a retreat has opened for registration, it will remain open until it is filled, and a waiting list will be generated. No reservations can be accepted before the scheduled opening date.
Retreats that have been opened can be found by clicking on the "Register Here" button below.
February 2-6, 2025--(4 Day)-- $500
A Step-by-Step Guide to Register
- Have your credit card available to process your payment. (You will be able to reserve your spot with a deposit of $250, or to pay the balance in full.)
- Click on the "Register Here" button above.
- You will see a list of the available 2025 retreat offerings. Choose a retreat date with your chosen retreat director.
- When you've arrived at your desired selection, click on the directors name and follow the instructions. (If the retreat director is full, a waitlist form will appear. Fill in your name and contact info to be added to the waitlist.)
Retreat registration will begin only for the February 2-6, 2025 Directed Retreat on Friday, 1/10/2025 at 9:30 a.m. No other retreat registrations can be accepted at this time.
If possible, please use the Online Registration. Be aware, we have limited staff available to process phone calls between 9:30 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. Online registration will be available 24 hours per day.
If you are unable to register online, please call (203) 245-0401 where staff will assist you. Or send us an email at registrations@mercybythesea.org. These requests will be processed after all the online registrations are fully processed.
The Mercy For All Scholarship Fund
Thanks to contributions from generous donors and the Institute of the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas, The Mercy For All Scholarship Fund provides financial assistance for those who cannot afford the full fee to attend Mercy by the Sea offerings.
List of Retreats/Retreat Directors and Their Opening Dates
We are pleased to announce the Retreat offerings for 2025
Themed Retreats
April 16-20 - Triduum Retreat -- $500-- Fr. Joe Donnelly
Registration will open on Thursday, January 23rd at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
July 27-August 3 - Summer Sabbath-- $880-- Andrea Minelli and Carol Villaggio
Registration will open on Thursday, January 23rd at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
August 15-21 - Zen Interfaith Retreat---Single $750---Double $600---Commuter $150/day
Registration will open on Thursday, January 23rd at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
Guided Retreats
March 2-6 - Learning to Bear the Beams of Love---$500--- Honora Nicholson, RSM and Margaret Galiardi, OP
Registration will open on Friday, January 24th at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
July 7-12 - The Grace of Resilience-- $600---Mary Pat Garvin, RSM, Ph.D
Registration will open on Friday, January 24th at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
2025 Directed Retreats
February 2-6, 2025 -- (4 Day) -- $500
John Murray, SJ, Laura Nager-Fitzpatrick, Eileen Campbell, RSM, Linda Robinson
Registration will open on Friday, January 10th at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
May 16-22, 2025 -- (6 Day) -- $700John Murray, SJ, Kathy Donnelly, SU, Jean Marie Holup, SS.C.M. Madeleine Lane, SSND, Mary Ellen Higgins, IHM
Registration will open on Tuesday, January 21st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
June 1-8, 2025 -- (7 Day) -- $800
Fr. Tony Di Bardino, Nan Bouche’, Pat McDermott, IHM, Sue Wieczynski, RSM, JoAnn Bourquard
Registration will open on Tuesday, January 21st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
June 22-29, 2025 (7 Day) -- $800
Catherine Morgan, OP, Chris Koellhoffer, IHM, Kathy McNamara, Elizabeth “E” Broyles, CMA, Connie Messitt, CSJ
Registration will open on Tuesday, January 21st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
July 13-20, 2025 -- (7 Day) -- $800
Francis Gargani, C.Ss.R., Honora Nicholson, RSM, Jan Webb, Carol Tropiano, RSM, Lisa Irish
Registration will open on Tuesday, January 21st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
July 20-27, 2025 -- (7 Day) -- $800
Fr. Tony Di Bardino, Pat Vine, Rev. Dr. Deb Pallatto, Helen Bearisto, RC, Eileen Smith, RSM
Registration will open on Wednesday, January 22st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
August 3-10, 2025 -- (7 Day) -- $800
Fr. Joe Donnelly, Marge Milanese, Rev. Stephanie Haskins, Mary Trainer, RSM, Eleanor Guerin, RSM
Registration will open on Wednesday, January 22st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
September 7-14, 2025 (7 Day) -- $800
Fr. Joe Donnelly, Judy Pluta, Sandy Prucha, RSM, Margaret Gaffikin, FSP, Margaret Galiardi, OP
Registration will open on Wednesday, January 22st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
October 26-31, 2025 -- (6 Day) -- $600
Fr. Joe Donnelly, Joannie Cassidy, SSJ, Laura Arvin, OP, Ann Duhaime, RSM
Registration will open on Wednesday, January 22st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
December 7-11, 2025 -- (4 Day) -- $500
Joanne Fantini, CSJ Agregee’, Shane Phelan, CMA, Mary MacGillvray, Peggy Cummins, SND
Registration will open on Wednesday, January 22st at 9:30 a.m. No registrations will be accepted before then.
Announcement will be coming soon for date of Registration Openings for all retreats.
Questions can be directed to Sr. Barb Giehl, RSM at BGiehl@mercybythesea.org or 203-245-0401 x111
Cancellation and Refund Policy for Mercy by the Sea
- A cancellation made up to 14 days before the start of the retreat will result in a full refund minus the deposit.
- The payment balance is due 14 days before a retreat.
- A cancellation made less than 14 days before the start of the retreat will result in a 50% refund of the total amount that has been received. A full refund would be given in the unlikely event that MBTS would need to cancel the program. Any payments made cannot be held by MBTS as "credit on account" toward a future date.