Directed & Themed Retreats

Mercy by the Sea through the Catherine McAuley Institute of Spiritual Formation offers a variety of silent retreats throughout the year.  Please find the retreats and their descriptions below.  

Themed Retreats

While primarily silent, these retreats offer guided prayer and meditations related to the retreat theme, input from the directors and an opportunity to share with other retreatants. Spiritual direction is not routinely offered. For 2019, we will offer Contemplative Ways to Being: A Silent Retreat with Fr. Michael Fish, OSB, CAM and once again Zen Spirit, Christian Spirit: An Interfaith Retreat with Roshi Robert E. Kennedy, S.J.

Directed Retreats

Retreats, especially silent directed retreats, allow us to withdraw from the busyness of life and to reflect on and deepen our relationship with God. Directed retreats offer an experience grounded in solitude, silence, prayer and daily meetings with a spiritual director. Directed silent retreats call for receptivity to the movements of the spirit and are adapted to the needs of each individual. Mercy by the Sea, located on the shores of Long Island Sound with 33 acres of grounds, offers a safe sacred space in which to explore who we are and who God is.

Retreat check-in is between 4 and 5 p.m. with a light supper served at 5:30 p.m. The silent retreat will open with a gathering at 7 p.m. and end with breakfast on the last day. Check-out is 10 a.m. Mass will not be available onsite except for those retreats where there is a priest director. However, a schedule of area masses and church services is available.

2019 Directed Retreats    

Requests for retreats and Summer Sabbath will be accepted by e-mail and telephone. Email Sister Ann McGovern at or call her at  203.245.0401, ext. 111. 


Contemplative Ways to Being:  A Silent Retreat On-site rooms are booked; Commuter spaces available. $600 commuter fee includes program & meals.
Sunday June 23 - Sunday, June 30
With Michael Fish, OSB CAM. 
Learn more.

Directed Retreat
Sunday, June 30 - Sunday, July 7     $625
Sue Wieczynski, RSM  
Cathleen Murtha, DW  FULLY BOOKED
Mary Costello, RSM    FULLY BOOKED 
Carol Villaggio
Andrea Minelli

Directed Retreat - FULLY BOOKED - (waiting list open) 
Sunday, July 7 - Sunday, July 14     $625
Joannie Cassidy, SSJ  1 opening
Eleanor Guerin, RSM   FULLY BOOKED
Kathleen L. McNamara FULLY BOOKED
Laura Fitzpatrick-Nager FULLY BOOKED

Directed Retreat 
Sunday, July 21 - Sunday, July 28     $625
Fr. Terry Moran    FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Maureen Christensen, RSM    FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Honora Nicholson, RSM   1 opening left
Carmela Garofalo, RSM    FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Mary Elizabeth Looby, GNSH    FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)

Directed Retreat
Sunday, July 28 - Sunday, August 4     $625
Fr. Tom Sievel         1 opening left
Patricia Cook, RSM FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Ann Duhaime, RSM FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Cynthia Giardina   FULLY BOOKED  (waiting list open)
Jan Webb FULLY BOOKED (waiting list open)

Zen Spirit, Christian Spirit:  An Interfaith Retreat   $675, single; $560, double; $80 daily commuter fee
Sunday, August 18 - Saturday August 24
Roshi Robert E. Kennedy, S.J.
All rooms are booked, but you can call Rosemary Jones in Guest Services, 203.245.0401, ext. 114,  to be put on a waiting list . For those staying onsite, check-in is at 4 p.m. on Sunday with dinner served at 5:30 p.m. Departure is at 10 a.m. on Saturday, August 24.There are still commuter spaces available for a fee of $80/day. Please call Rosemary Jones to register as a commuter.

Directed Retreat - This retreat is fully booked; call to be put on the waiting list.
Sunday, August 25 - Sunday, September 1     $625
Margaret Galiardi, OP FULLY BOOKED 
Connie Messitt, CSJ    FULLY BOOKED
Mary Trainer, RSM      FULLY BOOKED
Ann Rodgers, CP        FULLY BOOKED
Marge Milanese          FULLY BOOKED

Directed Retreat
Sunday, September 1 - Sunday, September 8     $625
Marie Danaher, OP   FULLY BOOKED (waiting list open)
Susan Blasi               FULLY BOOKED
Gail DeMaria, CSJP  FULLY BOOKED (waiting list open)
Kathleen McAlpin, RSM  FULLY BOOKED (waiting list open)

Directed Retreat
Sunday, October 27 - Thursday, October 31     $400
with Patricia Cook, RSM - FULLY BOOKED (waiting list is now open)

Directed Retreat 
Sunday, October 27 - Sunday, November 3     $625
with Janet Weber, RSCJ FULLY BOOKED (waiting list open)

Directed Retreat
Sunday, December 8 - Sunday, December 15     $605
(winter rates apply)
Claire Rusowicz
Suzanne LaVoie

Summer Sabbath

Come to the water to renew your connection with life's animating Spirit and recover your potential for joy and peace. Sabbath time can be as unplanned and open as you wish. Time to gather for reflection and prayer will be offered during the week, and spiritual direction is offered by request, although not on a daily basis.

Week I:  Sunday, August 4 - Sunday, August 11        $675  
Week II:  Sunday, August 11 - Friday, August 16       $575 
With Andrea Minelli and Carol Villagio

The retreat directors for the Summer Sabbath are Andrea Minelli and Carol Villaggio, both of whom are Mercy Associates.

Individual Directed and Personal Retreats

If you cannot participate in one of our scheduled directed retreats, you are invited to come at your convenience and stay for up to a week; spiritual direction is included. To discuss how we can serve your needs with regard to this retreat, contact Rosemary Jones at (203) 245-0401 ext. 114 or via email:

Recognizing that not everyone desires a directed retreat experience, we occasionally designate time for individuals who desire a private retreat.  While the retreat center may not be in silence, you can still benefit from our prayerful and peaceful setting. If you desire silence during meals, you are free to use the upper dining room. To check availability, please call Rosemary Jones in Guest Services at 203.245.0401, ext. 114, or email her: